Our place takes up time and space in this world, but we all have been put here for a reason. Not one person is here but accident! So with that in mind look around at your personal space, the people who make up your world and be the person you want to be. Do not accept what you think you are or , what a friend of mine calls, the "bad stories" others have told you. You are writing your own script. I love an illustration where you picture yourself sitting at a table across from the person you want to be, what would they act like, look like , what qualities do they posses? Okay, now figure out how to get there, go after those things, set a goal to endeavor to be that person.
God says He gives us the desires of His heart. I do not think it means, Oh man I want that car so He must want me to have it. First of all, God does want us to have nice things I have no issue with that, that is just not what I am talking about right now. Those desires are leanings and desires so we know which way to go. For instance someone may just love children, they want to spend all their time with little kids, that desire they may end up teaching or having a family or working with children in some way. It is really simple but so often people lose sight of simple things because there are so many voices shouting and telling us what we should do!
Go boldly forward to be the best you, you can be!
It is through Christ I can do all things! And Greater is He who is in me than he who is in this world!
He gets the glory in this life of mine, without Him it is just not the life I want to live.
He makes it a life of QUALITY! WANT A CHANGE? MAKE A CHANGE!!!