Women are designed to talk more than men, we are known for it! Therefore we need to be considerate how our words effect our spouse. Are they wearing him out or building him up? Does he brace himself for a train wreck when you say, WE need to talk! Mine still does! Here is a hint straight from a man, warning of a pending talk is not something they like, just ask if it’s a good time. Bring God into your conversation and what He has to say about a situation and if you don’t know, look it up in the Bible together. With the technology we have today it is so easy to research a verse or topic in the Bible. God’s Word has answers and He promises to give us guidance when we seek Him.
Its all about walking in love and being considerate. If we are loving others out of the Love God has for us, we are a flowing reservoir of Gods perfect love. Yielding to the Holy Spirt makes us a vessel for the Lord to pour Himself out on our spouse. How beautiful is that! The marriage relationship God designed, in many ways, is to love His child through you. That is why marriage is such a sacred union of God and husband and wife. It is truly the difference between matrimony and HOLY matrimony.